Thursday, March 9, 2017

Boyhood Journal

I'm here; recalling my boyhood. Back when the years of phallic obessions began.
Perhaps i was unlucky or not bold enough but it had more to do with the place and the time, the Slums of Kasubi in Kampala Uganda is where i grew up.
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Here girls had unwritten code that a good Ugandan girl did not give her self to boys and that she had a reputation to keep ....
Back then we learned everything about sex from what other little boys told you to do.. Things like, "you just put it in jere." in what?
The line was drawn by the girls; if one of the girls agreed to play with her ...there was no touching beneath the clothes, there was no kissing with the tougues touching. ...all these things were just told to you as you engaged in adolescent games with the opposite sex... You didnt know what you wanted. ..or how to ask for it...
Notably; the least dengerous form of this type of play was petting, that was when a girl let you place your boy hand on her breast, while she's was fully dressed and with her bra lock in covered by two or three layers of clothing, a blouse, a bra, a sweater and woe to the boy that could breakthrough all that and get to the hidden treasure. .....
I must have been 16 years or even 17 the first time I saw a girl's breasts that wasn't related to me...on that fateful day; i recall asking myself if i was blind and now i see... And if heaven was on earth and on Tiffany's chest!
Part 1 the End. ..

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